About
Workplace conflict is a relationship problem before it is a process problem.
Iamtente exists because the way people treat each other at work has a direct effect on performance, retention, and the quality of the day. The work is to help people talk, decide, and move forward.
Tente Squadrito
Tente · Founder
A management background, a sales background, and a focus on relationship dynamics.
Tente founded Iamtente after years in management roles at NATO and a career in sales. Those environments taught him how much of the work depends on the quality of the relationships around the table: how decisions are made, how conflict is handled, and whether people feel able to say what they actually think.
Since 2021, his work has focused on relationship dynamics. That has taken him into mediation, team facilitation, communication training, leadership coaching, and culture work with organisations across Europe.
Iamtente is an Estonian company working across Europe, with on-site work in Belgium, the Netherlands, Germany, France, Switzerland, Denmark, Sweden, and Norway. Work is delivered on-site or online, in English.
Background
Management at NATO. Sales. Relationship dynamics since 2021.
Base
Estonia. Working on-site across Europe, or online worldwide.
Why this work
The same pattern shows up everywhere.
A practical issue becomes personal. People stop talking directly. The team works around the problem. Good people either adapt to the dysfunction or leave. By the time someone calls a mediator or a consultant, the original issue is often the smallest part of it.
The work is to interrupt that pattern early enough — and to give people a structure that makes the difficult conversation possible.
How I work
Four things you can expect.
Direct
The conversation may be uncomfortable, but it should be clear. I say what I see, and I expect the same in return.
Neutral
I am not there to take sides. I am there to help the people involved understand the situation and find a way forward.
Practical
Insight is useful only if it changes what happens on Monday. The work ends with agreements, behaviours, and next steps.
Confidential
People need to know the boundaries before they speak honestly. Confidentiality and reporting are agreed at the start.
Where I work
Europe-wide, with a Belgian focus.
On-site work is available across Europe. Online work is available worldwide. Travel is charged at cost and agreed before booking.
- Belgium
- Netherlands
- Germany
- France
- Switzerland
- Denmark
- Sweden
- Norway
Iamtente is operated by Connexis OÜ, registry code 17570167, Tornimäe tn 5, 10145 Tallinn, Harju maakond, Estonia.
Next step
If the situation is costing you more than it should, let's talk.
A short conversation is enough to understand whether mediation, facilitation, training, or coaching is the right next step.